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Today's guest post is by Karen Hartman
How do
you choose just one animal as your favorite? Maybe it’s easy for others. But if
you asked parents to choose a favorite child, I think many would balk, saying
“Oh, we love Johnnie and Susie equally, just in different ways; we could never
pick a favorite.” I feel the same way about animals (maybe because they are the
closest things to children in my life). So instead, I’ll tell you about the
first dog I had as an adult.
My
husband, Tim, and I had recently married. He’d just received his military
commission and moved to South Carolina, while I stayed in southwest Ohio for a
couple of quarters to finish my graduate degree. That’s when Princess came into
my life.
She was about a year old when I adopted her – a happy little Sheltie
who was eager to please. I was a couple of hours from family and didn’t have
many friends in the area. Her companionship was a real blessing – it helped
make the final months in Ohio fly by.
Princess and I joined Tim in SC, and she quickly acclimated to the new
home and to having a man in the house. She was initially scared of Tim (she was
always wary of men, especially tall, dark-haired men), but they soon became
friends. Tim would come home from work and play with her, which she loved. She
tore around the house, twirling in tight little Sheltie circles and jumping up
on him, smiling and panting. This became a nightly ritual; I don’t know who had
more fun, Tim or Princess!
She learned many tricks: sit, shake, lie down. Tim was in a basic
training unit–working with drill sergeants and new recruits–so he was beyond
proud when she learned to low-crawl, scooting along the carpet on her belly,
like a soldier out in the field. You can imagine how many treats she earned for
that trick.
Princess went everywhere with us – boating with our family, hiking in
the caves, even walking along the beach when we were stationed in Hawaii. She
was a true “Velcro dog” – always within a foot or two of Tim or me, no matter
what we were doing. If I was in the kitchen cooking, she’d be right there,
sniffing around, trying to find crumbs I had dropped on the floor. When Tim was
working at his desk, she would lie on the carpet right by his feet, just
enjoying resting beside him. We used to joke that if she were an Indian, her name
would have been “Underfoot” – she was constantly that close!
She was there in the bad times, as well. I can remember her sitting
beside me on the couch while I was upset about something that had happened that
day. She would look into my eyes and listen to me as I talked; it was like she
could understand every word. Tim would often share his frustrations with her,
too. She was the best therapist we could ever have.
When we were stationed near Chicago, Princess
was diagnosed with Stage IV lymphoma. We found a great oncologist who was
trying a new chemo protocol. He said it would give her at least another eight
months, with good quality of life. We gave it a shot. She ended up living more
than four years, albeit at a slower pace, ever playful and happy. They called
her a miracle dog. And she was, in more ways than one.
Princess with "Mom" (Karen) |